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September 2002 Message from Ken: HOW THE DANCE BEGINS


  • End of Summer

  • Repairing Oneself

  • What Is Love



The end of August is almost here and for most of us the summer is drawing to a close. We are also moving towards the anniversary of September 11th.

The events of this past year have deeply affected the entire planet in a multitude of ways. Who would ever have thought about the many ways we have been touched in so short a time. Did you know, for instance, that the birthrate has substantially increased New York? Isn't it amazing how people began to look at life differently, redefined their priorities, and choose family?

Imagine how the awareness of freedom has been brought to the world. But isn't it strange that in the face of this awareness, so many people still choose war over peace.


I had shoulder surgery in early August. This makes three surgeries in the last three years. I had my right knee replaced, a hernia repaired, and a small chip removed from my shoulder. Today my body is a lot stronger.

One of the things I see when I am working with my clients, is the prevailing apprehension and fear of consulting with conventional medical doctors. I have heard every horror story imaginable.

I feel it is very important to communicate that there are some things for which we need assistance from these professionals. For instance, my hernia was a hereditary condition that stayed inactive until my mid 50s. Now, as a result of the medical attention I received two years ago, it is completely healed.

Many of my clients should see a medical doctor. Sometimes they have cancer or some other serious ailment. Because of lack of medical attention their illness will probably maim or kill them. If they had just taken care of themselves sooner, they would have been able to avoid the difficulties that are sure to come from ignoring the situation and going into denial.

We need to take responsibility and be proactive with our bodies. If you think you have a problem, take advantage of the knowledge and assistance that is available from traditional medicine, allopathic medicine, and alternative sources. Do not get fixated on how a cure needs to look. Sometimes prayers and calling upon higher powers does not do it.

We CAN find a medical professional that will understand and listen to us. If you've had a bad experience, you need to keep looking for the right assistance. With the advent of the Internet, there is an incredible amount of information out there to assist us in making informed and responsible decisions.

Here's something else to think about. In the metaphysical world I hear over and over again the judgments of people who say that a person is weak if they cannot heal themselves. But I have a question. If my body is a reflection of the world around me then how have the events of September 11th affected me physically? Is it a possibility that when I heal myself, I'm healing the wounds of my ancestors and my world around me?

Think about it. Healing can take place in many ways, from many sources. Seeking help is not a weakness. It is a strength.


Is there a connection between our heart and our soul? Where is the soul located in the body? How do we evolve? What is the purpose of our existence on Earth and our connection to God or Source? I have dedicated my life to answering these questions and understanding why some people feel connected to Source and others feel empty. I also sought to understand the relationship of the soul and spirit to our body, mind, and heart.

Throughout history, we have not been given the opportunity to learn the truth about ourselves, our connection to Source, and our soul. Those in power have kept us in the dark where we became lost in the outer world. Why wouldn't those who had discovered the secrets of life want us to know that each of us has the potential to become the light of Source?

Spiritual and political leaders have suppressed the truth for a number of reasons: cultural, racial, religious, and sexual. For centuries, people have searched for truth in the name of God. Wars have been fought. Millions have been killed. There are more than 1700 religions here on Earth today, including billions of Catholics, Muslims, and Hindus. Which beliefs are correct? Where does this fervent religious energy go? How does it affect the planet? Have our religious beliefs affected our love, compassion, and creativity?

In my search for the soul, I began hearing and seeing stories about my past lives in my dreams. I did not know where these experiences came from. Now I know that each of us is full of such stories. Each of us reenacts our stories over and over again as we start to awaken to our inner truth. Our outer world no longer fits who we have become. As we awaken, there is no need for the past to remind us who we are. There is no need to hide any longer.

People have many different ideas about what it means to be open, to be loving, and to be in the heart center. I'm not talking about the physical heart but the heart chakra center, the energetic gateway to the soul, which is located along the centerline of the body next to the physical heart.

Chakras are energy centers throughout the physical body. There are seven to nine chakras, according to different schools. Many of us are uncomfortable with the energies of the lower three chakras, because the majority of the challenges in the world originate there. The first chakra, at the base of the spine, begins with sexual/survival energy. It then evolves into sexual/creative energy and finally culminates in creative energy. Most people never get out of sexual/survival energetics because of their personal sexual experiences.

The second chakra in the lower abdomen is the point of balance for male and female energy. The third chakra, at the solar plexus, is the center of power and control. If our lower chakras are not balanced we will continue to energetically loop from the fourth chakra, our heart, to the first, second, and third chakras. Falling in love and making love creates an energetic connection between the heart chakra and the base chakras. The different physical and emotional experiences we have in relationships set up energetic pathways. Subconsciously we keep attracting others until we physically master sexual/survival feelings and emotions.

Throughout my life, I have been fascinated by how people interact with each other and how certain patterns of behavior repeat themselves. Even when people seemed to be coming from a loving space, many became repeatedly involved in power and control struggles with those around them. Why would this happen? I believe connecting heart to heart, the way we were taught in the past, creates energetic looping. Energetic looping means engaging with others by subconsciously projecting our unknown issues onto them.

When we are energetically out of balance and we try to help others, what really happens? Do we send love and light based on how we believe others should act or how we think they should be helped? When we send love, is it love or is it energy? If we think we are sending love, when it's actually energy, are we intensifying and distorting another person's creation, as well as our own? Could we be interfering with the lessons of others when we think we're helping?

How many of us love ourselves unconditionally? Do we love the way we look? Our hairline? Our body shape? Do we love every aspect of our life? Our job? Our house? Our family?

When there are parts of ourselves we do not love, how can we send love and light to others? What kind of energy do we think we're sending? Will the energy we send be distorted by our own inability to love ourselves unconditionally?

What has been our experience of love? Have we ever been loved completely? Did any of our parents love us to our full ability to be loved? It wasn't until later in life that most of us realized our parents could only love us as much as they loved themselves. Is this also true for us? Can we only love others as much as we love ourselves?

In addition to the fact that most of us do not fully love ourselves, most of us also energetically mix our fields with others. This happens because our energetic fields are usually projected outward several hundred feet from our bodies. When our energy fields are projected away from us that far, everything going on around us affects our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual bodies. When our fields are out and we send energy to others who also have their fields projected out, could this distort our perceptions and experiences even further?

When we energetically loop with others and our fields are also out, the loop will continue past the time we are with those people physically. When we see them again, the energetic patterns will still be there. That person will continue to unconsciously project their issues onto us whether it's guilt, anger, or pain. Spiritually, this ongoing dynamic helps us to master our issues. This is because sending love, light, and energy to others, when we have not learned to love ourselves unconditionally, attracts physically what we do not love within ourselves.

Isn't there an easier way to learn our lessons? I have developed a technique specifically designed to clear our physical body by pulling in our energetic field and loving ourselves.

What will the difference be when we are in our space, loving ourselves, compassionate towards others, and not projecting our issues? The other person will not be able to loop with us in the same way because we are not projecting our issues or reflecting their issues back to them. We will recognize our issues and take responsibility for them without projection. We will then have a choice about how we wish to continue to grow spiritually. We can learn, instead, by witnessing others and the dynamics around us.

Most of us naturally loop with our loved ones. We create patterns of interaction where we reflect each other's issues, and we continue these patterns of engagement to keep our loved ones attached to us. In the past, some of us might have been afraid that if we didn't reflect the issues of our loved ones, they would leave us to find someone who would. Please understand, loving ourselves unconditionally is very attractive. Our loved ones will feel this wonderful energy and want to be around us, even if they don't know why. It is both healthier and easier to attract and keep a lover by loving ourselves than by reflecting their fear and pain.

As we fully embrace the vibration of loving ourselves unconditionally, what will happen to the people we used to loop with? They will feel the love and acceptance we have for ourselves. This gives them the opportunity to recognize this quality in themselves and change if they choose. We can never change another person, but the more we love ourselves, the easier it is for someone else to recognize that capacity within themselves. Even though we may not like what others may be creating, we will understand what they are doing and have compassion for them. By not repeating these old energetic patterns, we can accept others for who they are without judgment. .

What I advocate is to be love. To be love is to love ourselves unconditionally and have unconditional compassion for others. This is the beginning of the path to having unconditional love for all creation and discovering the power of the heart and soul.


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